HOW TO OVERCOME FAILURE
Failure is blind with fear and laziness; it is not destiny but weaknesses in thinking. The reason you haven’t been able to overcome failure is not because your parent are poor, neither is it because you did not have a good educational background, but as a result of your refusal to take the right step in life.
If we are afraid to fail and we refuse to move or pick a challenge then we are actually working towards a way that will not enable us to overcome failure in life.
In life, we are all meant to failure in one way or the other but we must learn to overcome failure. If we become so afraid and let our fears overcrowd our mind and creativity then our futures is in jeopardy.
Without failure in life, success becomes inconsequential. It’s when we fail that we can learn from the past mistakes or the wrong step we’ve taken at a particular time in our life, correct that mistake and move ahead across the ladder of success.
Inability to overcome failure means we have refused to use the gift that has been given to us by God (For he has not given us the spirit of fear, but of a sound mind).
When people tell me they fail because they have no one to assist their career, ambitions or dreams I try to make them understand that ‘that you are the key to any dream, be it a career or talent’. We need to believe in ourselves first before anyone else can believe in us
Determination matters in life, success begins with the state of our reasoning. The inability to overcome failure is as a result of not knowing who we are and what is in us, overcoming failure is not by magic neither is success by magic. It totally depends on our ability to persevere, remain patient and the zeal to keep trying… They all work with the direction of our thoughts and thinking as humans (For as a man thinks in his heart, so he is).
I wonder why overcoming failure is becoming so real in our society today, failure is becoming so norm, because we fail to take a look at our great philosophers, our pioneer, writers and our great leaders, laziness has erode our ability to think , to create and to execute, laziness has blind folded our thinking and meditation. As humans, being unable to overcome failure has lead us not to develop in the wisdom of God, it is becoming so real among us and has lead us to look for quick and easy methods of achieving success.
Most of us are concerned about what people would say should we fail, we don’t want people to laugh at our mistakes and seem to forget that mistakes is the source of our learning process, as far we refuse to let people observed our mistakes, our wrong moves or steps, we will continue falling until we fadeout through time.
It will be a thing of shame should we be asked on the last day by our creator to list our areas of achievements and we are unable to. Be mindful of your talent don’t waste it please, because so many have done that already, do we know that if we refused to share an idea we might have destroyed a whole generation because only God knows the lives you might have impacted positively should you have followed up such ideas till the end.
That idea, that dream you refused to share might have been the solution to the unborn “generation” and you refused to share it and allowed it to die with you like that. Do you ever wonder why they say, the “grave yard is the only place concentrated with an array of talents on earth”, it is because so many people have failed to build on that idea, innovation and creativity in them and they died and were buried with their dreams, without the world gaining from their God given gifts of nature.
Reasons for Failure in all ramifications of life
Failure to anticipate
Failure to perceive
Failure to carry out a task
How to OVERCOME failure in life
Keep in mind always that life is about opportunity, It is of the essence that we contribute towards the betterment of our generation using Gods free gift bestowed upon us—Our Talent. If you fail in the process, there is always room for amendment, check the reasons why you fail and try to do things differently.
We are not created to be failures rather we were made to be overcomers. To fail is not a sin, but to refuse to overcome failure is a big sin before God and man.
Life has not termed us as disappointments; we ourselves gave it a name. Life still regards us as victors, overcomers or champions, because that is the original purpose why we were created, but we have a choice…to remain failures or become overcome failure as we were born to be.
The world depends on our ability to overcome failure; our parents depend on it, even our siblings. We therefore cannot afford to let them down, so get up and keep trying till success becomes your lot.
No matter who seems to doubt you…even if it is your parents, do not despair in the end they are your folks and regardless of all, they will love you genuinely.
Stolen ideas might make us not to overcome failure in our creativity and innovation.
What we need is not something that wasn’t meant for us i.e of a stolen subject which we might not appreciate and is going to end in the acknowledgement of others. Considering or working at something that is exhausting or unfulfilling should be about what we need to do not what our folks need us to do.
We need to dig deep and think, every individual is endowed with a special gift, talent, creativity that the world is waiting to see all we need to do is reflect and get started.
Sometimes our parents might prove to be difficult, they might want us to follow in their footsteps but do not allow yourself to work in the shadow of anybody. Get creative, do not disregard them, but make them see reasons why you need to carve a part for yourself. Discover your purpose for existence, pray about it ,work hard and you will excel. Once they see you excelling, they’ll give you their full support.
I want all of us to enjoy all that life has to offer in whatever we wind up doing. Remember things that are involved in life are either to overcome Failure or to become Successful in whatsoever we find ourselves doing.
Most people give up easily because they are scared of failing.
Extending and developing includes confronting instability and having difficulties. In the event that we are not willing to move or past our usual range of familiarity it means we are unable to overcome failure, we may feel safe, but sooner than later, the consequences of remaining a failure comes knocking. While stopping is not in itself an awful decision, we need to ensure that we’re not just succumbing to dread of disappointment that may lead us to failure.
Grasping disappointments doesn’t mean intentionally looking for it or making a remiss at the workplace. It’s not a call for heedless direct and dismissal of models. Apprehension of disappointment can be solid when it ensures us and doesn’t deaden on us. Not being able to overcome failure as a disappointment has a genuine outcome. Do what we should to keep away from or minimize them from being a failure. Questioning our capabilities additionally make extraordinary difficulties, remember, the bible says ‘We can do all things”. So you need to start believing you can do all things, never question the extent to which you can achieve, always believe, remain steadfast at all times.
We have to understand that we will keep on facing vulnerability, mess up, and encounter out and out disappointments in the course of going through life, since we’re human, we’re untrustworthy and we don’t have all the answers. Knowing how to acknowledge and handle disappointments as a form of failure will really help us in developing, asking questions and studying those who have succeeded in our field could be a boost in achieving our goals and a useful tool in overcoming setbacks.
To overcome Failure means that failure has no chance in our future if only we start working on something toady that will testify our yesterday hustle. When we plan with commitment, zeal, determination then we anticipates, perceive with focus I strongly believe that failure will have no space in our life.
Thank you very much to my readers and viewers.
Omoh Monday Joseph
HOW TO OVERCOME FAILURE